It Took a Pandemic to Change My Perspective

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The new normal is approaching, and I can no longer hide from it or “shelter in place.” 

The world has changed. 

I’m not referring to stocking up on toilet paper or raising chickens. Yes, I thought about both, but my belief system was based on a pre-pandemic mindset, and we are now living in a post-pandemic world. Let’s call it the good old days. I always wanted to say that! But were the old days excellent, or were we just comfortable and used to living one day after another?

Most of us are so distracted by being busy or operating in a state of busyness that we forgot to stop and smell the roses. No matter how many times we read those catchy wooden signs over the fireplace, the words never sunk in.

Then time stopped and it was like we were all living in the film “Ground Hog Day,” except it wasn’t a cute little town. It was four walls and no comfort food from the town diner. Suddenly our lives were filled with time. They say time is the most valuable commodity, but they also say you can’t buy time. We’ve all heard stories of older adults living in regret because they squandered time. But, like any kid, we need to find out for ourselves. We need to touch the flame on the stove to see how hot it is.

Like most people, I was overwhelmed and over-extended between work, obligations and responsibilities. Somehow, I survived. I thought I was sacrificing because I was working and supporting my family as a man should do. I told myself that my son would thank me when he gets older and my wife needs to understand that I’m doing this for our family. I often said to myself that I left for another business trip or work function while watching my son cry. I often said to myself that while speaking “Good Night” over the phone or missing another family function.

It’s easy to justify your actions when you’ve convinced yourself of the sacrifice. The word gets used so often. We should look into it a little before using it. Was I sacrificing or was my family when my son didn’t have his daddy there to put him to bed or read him a story or hold his hand when he was afraid? Is it sacrificing when you’re at a work function having a glass of wine socializing while your wife explains to your kids that daddy is working late?

We need to be honest about who is making the sacrifice. Is it us, or is it our loved ones who sacrifice the bond and relationship of having a dad and a husband?

It took a Pandemic to realize that what I disguised as a sacrifice was me chasing my dreams and desires. 

It was no longer a sacrifice. It was selfish. This Pandemic exposed a lot of things to a lot of people – from our sin and mortality to how we spend our time and what we idolized, to our relationship with friends and family, lack of control, empathy, our foundation of faith, and how selfish or loving we can be.

Some of us experienced all of those in the first week. God blessed me and exposed some of my sins immediately. I spent several weeks reflecting and praying for God’s grace and guidance. I guess it helped that I had the opportunity to interview dozens of people who were also affected by the Pandemic. They helped shape my position.

I often asked the question of what happens when life gets back to normal. Will you still have this new sense of clarity or wisdom and appreciation for life? Or will you go back to your old habits and put God back in the box until you need Him again to through another tough time?

I would often say God is not a friend whom you call to help you move a couch. He wants to build a relationship with you. I tried my best to remind people every day that we need to develop a relationship with Christ. We need to discover what God is calling us to do before life gets back to normal. We cannot morph back into our old habits because they were comfortable and familiar. I pray that we don’t stop growing and don’t stop developing when we are relaxed or complacent.

Craig Syracusa is a three time Emmy nominated director and executive producer. For nearly 20 years he has been a leader in the entertainment industry with his multi-faceted background in directing, producing, writing and starring in commercials, award-winning films, documentaries and reality shows. During his career, Craig has received industry-wide recognition for his work. Alongside his Emmy nominations, Craig has received 3 Communicator awards, 10 Telly awards, IndieFest, Global Accolade and was honored as one of the most successful men under 40.

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